Thought about it Mr.Minister? Clearly not

Standing harping on till their blue in the face isn’t going to change a thing, we all know society is screwed and we all know its not going to get better anytime soon.

But I’m sure I’m not the only one who can see that years of bad patterns of  behavior has left generations out of work, unmotivated sat on couches chain smoking and not caring enough to stop their kids from binge drinking!

These are the people who need help from mental health services, its about time this service didnt  have such a stigma attached to it because frankly it doesn’t take a doctor’s qualification to see that  the majority of the population needs some form of therapy! be it counselling, CBT, rehab or anti-psychotic pills! -And the faster they get help the better, or they’re never gonna get up off their asses! We’ll just see a generation of signed off sicker that they already are, or hugely anti-social and pioneering blackmarket trading and professional inside knock off jobs to screw these big corporations out of stock to sell back onto the poor people, which will see crime rewarding the criminally minded! Perhaps thats why government is so screwed eh!

And it doesn’t take a qualification to see that if more people did use theraputic services they may work jobs they’re actually happy to work, or do to nurture their real talents, talents that go beyond working the desk job in customer service that see’s them ruding out their issues on every customer that calls -customer that call for a service -their jobs should see them helping instead of offloading onto! Oh and sorry employers don’t get off that lightly either because as company’s (especially the larger more corporate ones) they should have team building days, and be giving their workers targets & further training incentives other than cash to keep stimulated! What the hell are appraisals for otherwise?


If reform is going to work, its going to have to be radical and its gonna take balls to make it happen.. truth be it no one in government is ballsy enough to do it! Its time this country re thought politics and got with the times! We seem to be a guinea-pig Isle of a country as it goes so why don’t we try something new and pioneering? Clearly what the were doing at the moment ISN’T working!

I’m talking more than 1 child tax like china has -get real, we shouldn’t be able to breed faster than some of the animals we eat do! Or expect society to pay for our children’s upkeep! Cant afford kids don’t have them & be willing to prove you can pay for them!

Working laws that work, national unsexist minimum wages! (coz no matter how much they try it certain people are out sexed in jobs) and taxing that is FAIR! which enables the next following points to work

State Services such as 999, NHS health care, street cleaning, rubbish collection, pensions.. SCHOOLING! All need to be vastly overhauled, its never going to be cheap.. but pump funding into mental health services firstly and you’ll see a general improvement in the minds of the workers and unemployed!

NLP Life coaches & counsellors in job centers and schools need to happen on a larger scale, because literally most parents aren’t mentally there to be able to guide their children these days sadly!

Therapeutic services need an overhaul because these outdated 15th century barbaric tactics aren’t working, shock treatment and over sedating on drugs namely! CBT is great but people need to be told harsh truths like “your fat and if you don’t loose weight wont be getting any income support, & will be dying sooner than you think” and radical life changing services such as NLP & alternative”s like acupuncture, Chinese medicine should be available under NHS! They work and are naturally healthier than pumping your body full of lab grown artificial medicines!

This list can go on and on when i look at each subject in more detail.. Its radical but it is possible, people just need a kick up the arse.



Whitehall Student Protests Evoking My BIG Emotions!

Been sitting here watching the news since 6pm, monitoring twitter -reading the thousands of tweets about the thousands of teenagers kettled in by police at the 24th November 2010 Student Protests against rising University fee’s at Whitehall London UK, the bias views of the press who love to feast on the one riot van being rocked about.. come on why would one police van be driving about amidst 50,000 angry teenage protesters?

They know what happened last time so this was a blatant set up for bad press!

The feelings of anger bubble inside me and i’m not even a student! As a mother who’s daughter is safely tucked up in bed i can only imagine what the parents of these kettled in kids are feeling.. It doesnt make it any easier -I’m asking myself why i actually brought a child into this failing world we live in, where socially were set up to fail? I feel sick

Today put us on the brink of a Revolution -The students revolution, I’m quite sad I’m not educated enough to be involved, i feel thoroughly moved by the unity these students are showing! -It is the rest of the population who should feel ashamed for not being more supportive of our future generation’s education!

I have a headache, twitter and its small minded country bumpkin out of touch morty (my word for more ty’s in their age should put them in the mortuary)  year olds harping on in the most closed minded ways is literally infuriating! I hate to think i exist in a planet where such a travesty is upheld, these morons get paid to work and think like this? FUCK ME.. Get with the times its the 2010 not 1910! Actually in 1910 they probably would have marched into parliament and strung up the dodo’s making such hideous decisions on behalf of this country!

I liked this ^^^ despite it being from the bias Guardian!

But this blog post really hit home They’re spot on in their writing, todays students are tomorrows government induced militants, hugely underrated and yet sadly it seems to be a general consensus out there that this world is over populated, the earth cant sustain us all, and their is no one radical enough out there to save us all, a back to basics lifestyle isnt what the spoilt majority want to do or even know how to do, shit half the population doesn’t even know how to cook a decent meal from scratch.

The futures not bright but it will be orange when this planet burns p in a huge ball of fire!

I feel better after ranting now ;~)

Catch up

Been neglecting my head space here a bit, mainly because I’m fairly content at the moment! Its been a while!!

Sure the credit crunch has been getting me down, but nothing some serial market researching cant combat 😛 oooh a taboo subject I will have to write about very soon! my only haste is that should i give away all the tricks of the trade I may loose out in the long run on such a prudential income!

The recent news in politics about benefit overhaul as you can imagine has caught my attention, more so the topic of housing benefits cuts for people with young families in large inner city accommodations and sole occupants of more than 1 bedroom social properties .. I couldn’t agree  more! I don’t think its fair that people breed willy nilly don’t go to work, give their children a decent quality of life and yet sit back on their couch watching Jeremy Kyle only budging to go on the school run or down to the local boozer! Especially those who are married and could have their husband (wether he’s around or not!) pay his due’s to his family! Is marriage not worth anything these days?! Or the OAP’s (like the ones who live on my block!)  whom sit comfortably in their 2/3 bedroom properties moaning and groaning at the other neighbours with kids, who want to play out, who go to work and have parties on the weekends.. these old people need to realise when its time to move on! If your continually moaning maybe its time to move to a smaller older aged village where the weekly meeting on neighbour hood watch and how to stop the cars from speeding will have some productive outcomes, instead of a younger generation deeming their wants as brainless in an inner city environment! URGH

Also talking with my bessie today about competence.. and the fact that as people in society we are highly competent, and don’t often get that the majority of people aren’t actually as competent as we are, we don’t need to be on a pedestal but seriously i do question if people even use their brains these days! or if we are just a handful of intellectuals having to dumb down in order to fit in? Too be honest I’m sick of it.. watch this space, some radical changes are going to happen soon!

Seven Days CH4

Have to get this off my chest… anyone who doesn’t get that the new reality tv program Seven Days on Channel 4 is all about INTERACTING with the show via the ChatNav site, Facebook and Twitter! has to be highly stupid and so out of touch with technology its beyond me! I’m sure you’re the percentage of the population with an android phone, not smartphone are we eh!

And why the hell are you moaning about how shit the show is, the whole point is to interact with them to make it better! to get them talking about what you want them to be talking about! If its boring it’s because you clearly don’t know how to utilize technology and the opportunity’s it’s bringing!

So good for them for being the select few who actually were braisen enough to let the camera’s into their lives, do channel 4 need to make a documentary about how half of the traders/residents of Notting Hill they approached said no? NO now that would be BORING! I can actually find a million reasons why the people cussing off the show are the ones with the very small minds that feed (And fund) into the bigger media industry, and will continue to tune in week after week just to slag off the Seven Days characters… even if it is just to make themselves feel a bit better about their own boring existence!

Well done Endemol & Channel 4 for producing another reality corker, and giving the Android public something to moan about!

I LOVE IT! ….and very soon SO WILL YOU!

10 Goals to end 2010

So I’ve decided to take a more proactive approach to challenges in my life, and am now going to find 10 things to change and work towards…would set myself a time limit only knowing how sporadic my progress can be I don’t want to fail before I’ve started! so here goes..

  1. Win residency of my daughter back!
  2. Finish putting my ceiling cove architrave stuff up (ha DIY goddess or what!)
  3. Finish my flooring in my bedroom hall and then bead the whole flat! (4 years on i still haven’t finished but atleast i have the right tools for the job now! and uh says alot for my man friends who should be doing this for me!)
  4. start Christmas shopping (yes already)
  5. Flog the rest of my clothes on Ebay that are sitting blocking up my desk!
  6. Find a way to get these stretched out itching Hessian sacks a Breast lift
  7. Acquire some more generally usefully sized handbags
  8. Fix my BMX back wheel (needs tightening or a new bearing i think)
  9. Have some sleep overs with the bessie and her daughter!! (need more female bonding in my life!!)
  10. Start getting my writing channelled into ANYTHING more productive than this blog!

That seems a fair list for now…..stay tuned for a progress report!

I’m Baaack!

Since I last posted a lot has gone on, probably far too much for me to write about without boring you all!

But I can confirm why i went AWOL… life got to me and i had to retreat cry and reflect on what was going on in my life… ie not much! And since my moods have ebbed and flowed, i put this down to mostly the weather and lack of sunshine giving me my yearly case or S.A.D ….

I have had friends over staying for a bit whilst their flat gets renovated, which has had its moments (the washing up, hoovering and continual take away consumption not being recycled mostly! lol) but it is lovely having normal company and makes me feel useful, as moving and redecorating is highly stressful! Bit of female bonding with the new girl in the crew is great too especially as we get along great!

As usual progress with my family is as ever slow, have built a few bridges with my brother and his fiancé and sadly he is now slowly being exiled from my mothers hub… she will have hard lessons to learn when he moves out in the next couple weeks, and I’m already taking bets on when she will become pregnant by! Am really happy for my brother tho, his new-found independence and ability to stand up to our mother makes me a really proud big sister! My middle sister is getting all geared up for secondary school next September, and my fingers toes and eyes are all crossed hoping she gets into this boarding school she so desperately needs! God knows i spent ages filling in her applications due to my mothers usual incompetence! >_<

I’ve got a court date finally for my application for residency! Mother isn’t opposing and the elusive baby father of mine is now out of Jail and back skulking the streets of West London and screw facing me when eye contact is made O_o he’s no biggy tho.. I’m just looking forward to getting my baby back finally!!

As you can expect in all this I’ve had a few thought-provoking life changing occurrences through the past few months changes in life which uncannily I can’t pin point to explain to you right now.. annoyed -I wanted to share!

Life’s Reflective Breaking

Dawned on me today how close behaviours fall within families, and the patterns that get repeated or started in them, take for instance myself.. i always seem to attract people into my life whom have problems, who i try to help fix, who always distract me from what’s important (my daughter and I’s needs) and today that pattern stopped, i realised Mother Dearest the woman i loathe to be like has had a far greater influence on my life than i ever thought.. or maybe i just forget in all these emotions and confusion of trying to fix everyone else! This is HER pattern of deflective behaviour that stops her from dealing and facing up to her problems, today i learnt how to assert myself to stop that.. i’ve learnt how to say; no i don’t want that it my life, i’m going to deal with my problems, and in order to do that i have to be selfish and not help anyone but myself.. even if that means walking away from those i care for.

And in asserting myself i discovered how it feels to be on the other side of the coin, when you come from a family who aren’t used to reflective behaviours and analysing problems because either A. they don’t know how to or B. They’ve never had to (ie no seriously dysfunctional people in the family) and so aren’t able to help you in your reflecting, which is where you then turn to your friends or attract people into your life to help you to understand that process.. to enable your enlightenment into breaking the habit…

Its also not uncommon for habits to be seen as normal, such as following in your parents professional… to then get to an old age and realise shit actually this isn’t what i wanted to do, i did it to make them happy or to kill some time in finding my true niche, only i ended up wasting my life in doing so.

Were all different but essentially our problems are all rooted the same…

All our roads in life cross and its up to us as individuals how we choose to deal with those crossings… ignoring the red man or watching for the green, and those decisions in life shape us hugely… often deciding whether we make it to the other side or get run over.

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